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Wedding Ceremony
Your love deserves
more than a template.
A free wedding ceremony that tells your story – personal, warm and exactly as you are.
Wedding Ceremony
Your love deserves more than a template.
A free wedding ceremony is bound to no denomination and no place. It follows only one thing: your story. How you met. What carries you. What you stand for.
I write your ceremony entirely individually – and deliver it freely, whether in a garden, a vineyard, by the lake or in your living room. So personal that your guests think: that’s exactly who they are.
Why free
What makes a free wedding ceremony special.
Entirely your story
No text modules. Every ceremony grows from your memories, your humour, your nature.
Free of conventions
You decide on the flow, rituals and tone – solemn, light, serious or with a wink.
Possible anywhere
No registry office, no church required. We celebrate wherever it feels right for you.
How it works
From the first conversation to the moment.
Getting to know each other
We get to know each other – no obligation – and sense whether the chemistry is right.
Your story
Calmly, I gather your memories, anecdotes and wishes.
The ceremony takes shape
I write your ceremony and coordinate every part with you.
The big day
Freely spoken, present and with heart – your moment.
A wedding is not a programme you run through. It is the first chapter you read aloud together.Alexander Bench
Enquire now
Let’s talk.
The first conversation costs you nothing but time. Tell me about your moment – and together we’ll find out whether I’m the right person for it.
I accompany ceremonies in the Rhine-Main region and, on request, beyond.
Multilingual free wedding ceremonies – German, English and Portuguese
A multilingual free wedding ceremony brings two families and their stories together. The ceremony can be held in German, English or Portuguese, or bilingually in German-English or German-Portuguese.
How does a bilingual free wedding ceremony work?
In our preparation conversations, we decide which parts of the ceremony should take place in which language. Translations, language changes, vows, music and contributions are coordinated so both families can follow the ceremony. It is not a rigid sentence-by-sentence translation, but a natural rhythm that includes everyone.
Who is this suitable for?
This is designed for international couples and families in the Rhine-Main region whose guests do not all speak the same language. Individual multilingual elements can also be integrated into a mainly German ceremony.
What do we discuss in the first conversation?
We discuss your languages, the make-up of your guest list, important family stories, the desired balance between languages, rituals and the ceremony location. This creates a flow that is easy to follow and still sounds personal.
Wedding ceremonies shaped around your story
Wedding ceremonies become meaningful when they sound like the people at their centre. There is no single right format. Some couples want a quiet ceremony with a few close friends; others want music, readings, family participation and joyful rituals.
I begin by listening to your story. We talk about how you met, what you have shared and what you hope to promise each other. From this conversation I write a personal ceremony with words that feel natural, warm and true.
Together we decide which elements belong: a welcome, your story as a couple, vows, readings, music or a symbolic gesture. Every detail should serve the moment rather than follow a template.
On the day, I guide the ceremony with calm presence and attention. You can focus on one another and on the people who have come to celebrate with you.
For ideas about personal wedding celebrations, visit Hochzeit.de. If you would like to talk about your wedding ceremonies, send me a few lines and I will respond personally.
A personal wedding ceremonies can also make space for different languages, family traditions and beliefs. I work in English, German and Portuguese and can help create a ceremony that welcomes international families and guests.
The first conversation is without obligation. It gives us time to see whether my way of working fits your wishes and whether I am the right person to accompany your wedding day.
These wedding ceremonies are prepared with the same care as any important life moment: time to listen, space for questions and words written especially for you.